They compliment my desire to grow and be a wiser man than I was yesterday. They offer so much outside of the bedroom which makes the whole relationship to be built on more solid grounds. I am fit and attractive but I would never be fooled by the beauty without maturity which is something many young women lack.

I have high respect for the military. Many in my family have served or are currently serving. “For single men the options are plentiful.” Really? Actually, for some of us (I’m 53 and have never been on a date) there are not and never have been any options at all. Either a guy can attract women or he can’t – and if he can’t, there’s no point in trying.

To these men, I do not give them one more second of my time. I am 50, recently single after an empty nest. I’m athletic, tall, have a successful career in medicine, play music publicly, make art, and and am told I’m handsome. I always liked women my own age, but now, the late 30-something and early 40 something women are all over me, no matter how much you tell them they’re too young.

There were so many people i know who ended up getting divorces at your age because of cheating . Mostly the male partner cheated but in some cases it was the woman. I feel like when we reach 50, it is a time for change kind of a shake up time. Time to get rid of friends who do no help us in life. Maybe changing things about ourselves or changing our profession.

I used go to Office Christmas functions. I am single with all my couple friends. I will fantasize about being in a relationship till I die.

If you’ve ever dealt with a child in the terrible two stage, you’ve seen this type of behavior. I just found it very difficult to cope when it was an adult doing it. Now that we’ve been divorced for a year, I find it easier to say what I feel to her because I don’t care as much. I still would like to be friends but I don’t have that deep need to please her that I used to have. When I’m in a relationship, I want to please my partner.

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Then regret it, but by then it’s already done. I’m 43 and never been married – in fact I’ve never had a girlfriend or even dated . At least divorces/ees have experienced the human dimension that is known through an intimate relationship with someone they felt very strongly attracted to. It’s too late for me – nothing has happened yet and almost certainly never will. Get asked out by younger men, men my age, older men.

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She’s over putting all of her focus on appearance and would rather be on time for her doctor’s appointment than waste minutes looking for spare mascara. She doesn’t feel as if the world’s judging her if she accidentally forgot to swap our her flats for heels, and isn’t afraid to value comfort over high fashion. Women at this stage often have never married for certain reasons or have separated from their partner due to death or divorce. It’s very possible they don’t want to start over again, nor do they want to be swept off their feet.

From what I have found with the men in my group 40 and below is they really just want to have a conversation where there is no drama and judging. It is hard for men to be themselves I think because a few women in their past who must have raked them over the coals for something they did or said. Now the dynamics of how they would interact with a woman their own age versus myself is different because the dating/sexual part isn’t part of the picture. I have been in situations where I could see the line blurring but that is where it stopped. I am a newly divorced single woman over 50.

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The last 7 years of our relationship I took care of him. We traveled all over the world having a wonderful time and life. We worked hard and had 2 beautiful children, now morally grounded adults.

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